Don't Be In A Rush
Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off DatingSafe. Don't be afraid to ask questions to screen for any red flags or personal dealbreakers. A DatingSafe call (available in-app), is a good screening tool before the meeting.
Meet in Public and Stay in Public
Meet for the first few times in a populated, public place - never at your home, your date's home, or any other private location. If the date pressures you to go to a private site, end the date.
Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans
Tell a friend or family member of your plans, including when and where you are going. Have your cell phone charged and with you at all times. We recommend downloading the Noonlight App.
Be in Control of Your Transportations
We want you to be in control of how you get to and from your date so that you can leave whenever you want.
If you're driving yourself, it's a good idea to have a backup plan such as an Uber, Lyft, or a friend to pick you up.
Know Your Limits
Be aware of the effects of drugs or alcohol on you specifically - they can impair your judgment and alertness. If your date tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you're comfortable with, hold your ground, and end the date. It’s best to wait for another time when your alert and have all your senses.
Don't Leave Drinks or Personal Items Unattended.
Know where your drink comes from and know where it is at all times - only accept drinks poured or served directly from the bartender or server. Many substances that are slipped into drinks to facilitate sexual assault are odorless, colorless, and tasteless. Also, keep your phone, purse, wallet, and anything containing personal information on you at all times. Many bars offer an Angel Shot by ordering this drink it will help guests exit unsafe situations. Alert the bar staff that you feel unsafe or are in trouble.
If You Feel Uncomfortable, Leave
It's okay to end the date early if you're feeling uncomfortable. We encourage you to do so. If your instincts tell you something is off or feel unsafe, ask the bartender, waiter, or server for help.
For information regarding DatingSafe security practices or guidelines related to responsible disclosure, please visit our security page. Meeting new people is exciting, but you should always be cautious when interacting with someone you don't know. Use your best judgment and put your safety first, whether you are exchanging initial messages or meeting in person. While you can't control the actions of others, there are things you can do to help you stay safe during your DatingSafe experience.
DatingSafe has partnered with Noonlight to protect our members by providing backup on every meetup. Download Noonlight today so you can log details about an upcoming date, share your location with friends or silently call the authorities if needed - 24/7. Get Noonlight app
Stay on the Platform - Keep conversations on the DatingSafe platform while you're getting to know someone! Use our Video Phone Call Feature! This is a great way to vet their identity that they look like their pictures and also a great way to get to know someone in person over the phone first and establish a relationship. Users with bad intentions often try to move the conversation to text, messaging apps, email, or phone right away. This is a red flag and recommends a time to get to know them.
Never Send Money or Share Financial Information
Never send money, especially over wire transfer, even if the person claims to be in an emergency. Wiring money is like sending cash - it's almost impossible to reverse the transaction or trace where the money went. Never share information that could be used to access your financial accounts. If another user asks you for money, report it to us immediately. For tips on avoiding romance scams, check out some advice from the U.S Federal Trade Commission on the FTC website
Protect Your Personal Information
Never share personal information such as your social security number, home or work address, or details about your daily routine (e.g., that you go to a certain gym every Tuesday or grocery store every Friday) with people you don't know. If you are a parent, limit the information that you share about your children on your profile and in early communications. Avoid sharing details such as your children's names, their ages or genders, or where they go to school.
Be Wary of Long Distance and Overseas Relationships
Watch out for scammers who claim to be from your country but stuck somewhere else, especially if they ask for financial help to return home. Be wary of anyone who will not meet in person or talk on a phone/video call-they may not be who they say they are. If someone is avoiding your questions or pushing for a serious relationship without meeting or getting to know you first - Is a red flag.
Report All Suspicious and Offensive Behavior
You know when someone's crossed the line and when they do, we want to know about it.
Block and report anyone that violates our terms. Examples of violations:
You can report any concerns about suspicious behavior from any profile page or messaging window
or contact firstname.lastname@example.org. For more information, check out our Community Guidelines
Protect Your Account
Be sure to pick a strong password, and always be careful when logging into your account from a public or shared computer. DatingSafe will never send you an email asking for your username and password information - if you receive an email asking for account information, report it immediately.
Please remember DatingSafe will NEVER ask you for your password, to share your screen with us, or require payment to receive customer support. If you need to contact DS, we recommend you contact us at email@example.com. Please do not call phone numbers found in a Google search - we do not provide general support over the phone.